"A caged bird stands on the grave of dreams" Maya Angelou 1993. Angelou was protesting the evil of racial discrimination, but there are many ways to snare others. We, humans, have an astonishing capacity to love, and a bewildering facility to hurt others. "The caged bird sings with a fearful trill of things unknown but … Continue reading “Hard To Love” People.
She selects “wool and flax and works with eager hands.” (Proverbs 31,13. NIV) She is a business leader, politician, lawyer, teacher, doctor. She is an artist. She is a leader in her field. She operates with integrity. She is a respected wife. She is a caring mother. She is creative. She offers wise counsel. She is … Continue reading The Perfectionist
We came across two derelict cottages in Spring 2017. The Yorkshire Post ran an article about them. 'Time warped cottages come to open market for the first time in 200 years" was the line which caught my eye. Purchasing them proved difficult as title deeds were sketchy and land registration documents non-existent. They had … Continue reading Opening and Closing Chapters.
Prominent feminists Margaret Atwood, Christine Hoff Sommers and Catherine Deneuve have recently been forthright in their condemnation of the #MeToo movement which they feel has moved from rightly exposing abuse of women by prominent and powerful men towards becoming a vigilante movement where some men are being denied the basic right of all in a civilised … Continue reading Seasons of Silence.
Is anyone in the UK still recovering from a battle with the 'Beast from the East'? I've assigned this malicious weather system a gender in my mind - male. Not so politically correct in these gender neutral times I fear, but nevertheless, that's what comes to mind and no offence is intended. Mine is a trivial … Continue reading Where is God when we need Him?
I stumbled across them in a hospital of all places. It was a regular Thursday afternoon teaching session for trainee psychiatrists in Glasgow and 'the psychotherapists' had come to give us a lecture. Well, perhaps the word 'lecture' does not do that afternoon's meeting justice. An intimate encounter with a very select madness or alchemy? … Continue reading Self-Reflection – Helpful or Harmful?
Dear 'Prophetic Word-Bearer', There are many times in my life when I've pleaded with God for you to make an appearance with a 'word' for my situation. Just for clarification, I haven't been expecting any accompanying miracle or detailed roadmap. A quiet word of encouragement when in a crisis that I was 'doing the right thing' … Continue reading Has God given you a message for me?
'Thou hast made us for thyself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it finds its rest in thee.' Augustine of Hippo. I'm more than a little restless by nature, and satisfaction rarely finds a home amidst the torrent of questions in my mind. No sooner have I finished one project, one book, one task … Continue reading Finding a ‘good place to be’.
I selected my Christmas cards carefully this year, from a children's charity as usual. Modern, no excessive gold gilding, muted colours, with the perfect blend of Christmas 'country style' and a very acceptable nod to Christianity. They represent perfectly the dichotomy that is Christmas. There is, of course, that very appealing idea of a 'family … Continue reading An Extravagant Christmas.
The bad behaviour of some prominent men in our lives and times has made for depressing media headlines in recent weeks. It has been easy for these predators to operate in a world where 'sleazy' behaviour is tolerated and media, in general, portrays relationships as dispensible and responsibilities within relationships as so 'last century'. I've … Continue reading Masculinity in a world where men behave badly.